General Relationship | Conscious Relationship Seminars and Podcast

Relationship Essentials for Men (Women Invited!)

With Robert Glover, Ph.D.

Historically, women have been thought of as the primary gatekeepers of intimate relationships. Unfortunately, there are several potential downsides to this paradigm:

Women often come to feel controlling, criticizing, and over-worked
Men often come to feel controlled, criticized, and unappreciated
Men tend to become defensive and avoidant and see their partner as a problem to be solved
Women tend to feel dismissed and lonely and have to guess what their partner is feeling and thinking
Both partners often end up feeling frustrated, resentful, powerless, and misunderstood (but doing more of the same thing, hoping for different results)

No wonder over 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce and countless others wither in silent desperation.

In this program Dr. Glover proposes a new paradigm of relationship interaction in which men become more fully present and take a more active leadership role in their relationship. Dr. Glover is not proposing that men become dominant or controlling, but that they become more conscious, honest, and transparent. In doing so, they can act with love and integrity in setting a tone that promotes open communication, problem resolution, reciprocity, trust, and sexual passion.
In this program, men will learn:

How to become conscious and present in their intimate relationship
How to become a good ‘ascertainer’
How to become honest and transparent with their partner
How to set the tone and take the lead with love and integrity

In this program, women will learn:

What it looks like when their partner becomes present in their relationship
How to trust and let go of control
How to more fully participate in a more reciprocal relationship
How to welcome increased sexual passion

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Check out Dr. Glover’s great book- “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”
It will change your life!

Passionate Marriage

Dr. David Schnarch

In this presentation by renowned sex and marital therapist, Dr. David Schnarch, you will learn:

Why NORMAL couples have sexual problems, and how best to handle them
The four most important things to do to have the relationship you want
Two ways to immediately increase intimacy and enhance sex in your relationship

After 13 years helping couples around the world have happier, healthier, and more erotic relationships, Dr. Schnarch’s international bestselling book, Passionate Marriage, will be re-released in the United States on August 27, 2009, with a new forward and a key concepts guide based on readers comments. Passionate Marriage has become the most popular sex and relationship self-help book because it offers universal and timeless tools that apply to every aspect of your life. In this workshop, youll learn how to apply them to you.

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Conscious Loving – Updated

Gay Hendricks, PhD and Kathlyn Hendricks, PhD

Authors of the ground-breaking book Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-Commitment,and more recently, the outstanding Lasting Love: The 5 Secrets of Growing a Vital, Conscious Relationship
Gay and Kathlyn (Katie) Hendricks wrote the ground-breaking book Conscious Loving in the early 90′s and are delighted that people continue to find this book useful. Conscious Loving is used in graduate school programs and in wedding ceremonies internationally.

In this program Drs. Hendricks will present their latest perspectives on key elements of Conscious Loving, includin:

The importance of telling your microscopic truth
The role of making and keeping commitments in a successful relationship
How the invisible, insidious upper limits problem can sabotage your life and relationship

Gay and Katie will share the ways they’ve updated and integrated Conscious Loving in their own relationship of 29 years as well as their work. The focus of this program will be how to make the key shifts that will allow you to create and sustain loving relationships.

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Check out these ground-breaking relationship books by Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks.

Highly recommended!

Emotional Mastery: The Secret to Incredible Relating

With Ilene Dillon, MSW, MFT, LCSW

Anyone who has made New Year’s resolutions only to lose resolve within two or three weeks, has an idea of how powerful human emotions can be in everyday life.

In fact, emotions are more important than you can ever imagine. They underlie everything we do and create (and fail at). Most people, including psychotherapists, have little understanding of the true role emotions in our life.

Learn this cutting-edge information on the role of emotions in your life and relationships and become the master of your emotions that you are intended to be.

In this program, you will learn:

The true role emotions are designed to fill.
How to find and use your “Human User’s Manual.”
What animals show us about emotional mastery that we can use.
Anger, jealousy and loneliness: their signals, and how to use them.
How to improve your emotional mastery by eliminating the two saddest words in any language.
How emotional mastery enhances relationships

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Secrets for Getting Love Right This Time

With Amy Schoen

Have you loved and lost love?

Have you decided to give dating another try to find The Right One?

Are you afraid that you may get hurt again?

Wouldn’t you like to Get It Right This Time in the love department?

Amy Schoen, MBA, CPCC – Certified Professional Life Coach and National Dating and Relationship Expert will give you the road map to finding and keeping your Ideal Romantic Partner.
In this program you learn:

How to prepare yourself for Get It Right This Time? dating.
What’s getting in your way for meeting The Right One.
What helpful tips you need to know to Get It Right This Time and what will make you more attractive to prospects.
Where to go to meet The Right One and how to successfully connect with people.
The six signs that tell you if your partner is The Right One.
The telltale signs for if you should stay or leave a relationship.

Whether you are single or in a relationship, this program will give you the confidence and the know-how to move forward with the right romantic relationship!

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Addressing Relationship Energy Drainers

With Ilene Dillon, MSW, MFT, LCSW

Do you know that the way a relationship starts off, it tends to continue?

Too often we spend weeks or months in a relationship, only to find it is not working for us because we feel drained, guilty, very angry, or “used” in the relationship.

You can save yourself time, energy, and pain by learning to recognize immediately when your energy is being drained and what you can do about it. Whether you have a penchant for attracting energy draining individuals or you experience energy draining only occasionally, you’ll appreciate having readily-available tools for dealing with this all-too-common relationship challenge.

In this program you will learn:

How and why energy draining occurs
6 ways to immediately recognize when your energy is being drained.
Two prominent patterns of energy draining.
Three actions you can take to neutralize energy draining from others.
How to utilize the 72-Hour Rule to strengthen yourself in relationships.
The D.E.S.C. Plus-A-Step method for communicating powerfully.

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No More Mr. Nice Guy! Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

With Robert Glover, Ph.D.

Too concerned about what other people think of you?
Spend too much time taking care of other people?
Having a hard time making your intimate relationships work?
Frustrated with your sex life?

In No More Mr. Nice Guy!, Dr. Robert Glover presents a proven plan to get what you want in love, sex and life. Whether you’re single and looking for love or in a relationship that you want to become all it can be, Dr. Glover will help you identify your own self-defeating behaviors and find what you’re looking for.

In this program you will learn-

How to stop seeking approval and make your needs a priority
How to build healthy, vibrant relationships
How to tell the truth with love
How to set the tone and take the lead without being controlling
Three rules for great sex

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The Chemistry of Love

Helen Fisher, Ph.D.

Pioneering anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher shares her as-yet-unpublished research (unless you count. Oprah Magazine and Psychology Today) proposing Four Psychological Types, the neuro-chemicals that determine each type, and the role of these four types in relationship compatibility.

Dr. Fisher proposes that humans have evolved four very broad basic biological personality profiles:

Explorer
Builder
Negotiator
Director

Dr. Fisher’s research shows that each type corresponds with variations in the neural systems for dopamine, serotonin, estrogen and testosterone. Each biological type is predisposed to think and act in predictable ways.

In this program you learn:

Four love types found in all romantic relationships
The role of neuro-chemicals in determining each type
Compatibility strengths and weaknesses of each type in long-term relationships
How to determine your Love Type

Which types you’re compatible with and how to spot them

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Overcoming the Three Core Beliefs That Guarantee Relationship Failure

With Paul and Layne Cutright

If you have even one of these beliefs your relationships don’t stand more than a 5% chance of success. It’s not what you consciously think that determines the quality of your relationships, but what you subconsciously believe. Until you are able to observe the hidden thoughts, beliefs and feelings that occupy your subconscious mind, and learn to change them, you are doomed to continue repeating the same old patterns in your relationships.

Paul and Layne share intimately about how they transformed their own unhappy relationships into a lasting, loving, mutually empowering personal and professional partnership that has lasted thirty years. If you ever wonder why your relationships don’t last or seem to work out, you will want to hear what Layne and Paul have to say.

In this program you learn:

How to access your subconscious mind to root out self-sabotage
How to avoid getting sucked into the abyss of endless “processing”
Why you need direct access to your Superconscious mind and how to get it
The truth about affirmations and why they often don’t work for people
And much more . . .

(61 minutes)
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Reptiles in Love: Ending Destructive Fights and Evolving Toward More Loving Relationships

With Don Ferguson, Ph.D.

In REPTILES IN LOVE Ferguson explains how to recognize and prevent fights that escalate to mutually self-destructive behavior and tells couples how to achieve physical and emotional safety in conflict, sort out real from unreal issues, and identify and overcome the more primitive aspects of our nature.

In this program you learn:

How the brain affects couples abilities to talk and really hear each other when they are fearful, angry or hurt
How to lower the emotions and intensity before trying to “fix things” or trying to get closer
How most repetitive battles are about “the wrong subject”
“Mechanical approaches” to lowering anxiety and calming each other

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